We all know women love being romanced by men, but do you know men need to be romanced to as well? If you are currently in a relationship and are getting too comfortable, ask yourself, are you taking your man for granted? Are you expecting him to do all the romancing while you sit back and enjoy?
Probably its time you do something to keep the fire going in your relationship! Follow at least a few of these tips and I guarantee your man will love you to bits.
1) Do not always be at the receiving end. Take the initiative to give sometimes! Giving does not refer to physical gifts always though. It can be a thoughtful act that surprises your other half and makes them feel appreciated. For example, he may be the one who is always doing the cooking. You can surprise him with a home-cooked meal one day when he least expects it. I'm sure it will make him really happy.
2) Remember to thank him for the little things he do for you. Sometimes, I thank my hubby for something as simple as making me tea or preparing breakfast for me. "Thank you" is really easy to say and if it can make it feel appreciated, why not say it more?
3) Listen to him when it's time to and give him your support. It's really necessary to listen to each other in a relationship. If he is facing any problems and would like to share it with you, listen. Sometimes, he might not even wish to say anything and would like some quiet time of his own, respect it. Women usually feel that the best way to solve any problems is to lay it on the table and talk it over, but men do not always feel the same way. They might need some time to retreat and think about it themselves. In those situations, tell him you would be there if he needs someone to talk to. I'm sure he will really appreciate it.
4) Try to be involved in the things he is interested in. He might be a big soccer fan. Even if you are not very keen in watching soccer matches, do make it a point to go with him sometimes. He will know that you are making an effort to participate in the same activities that he enjoys. He may even reciprocate to go shopping with you on his own accord, although he may not like it as much too. Spending quality couple time is important and reinforces the connection between the two of you.
5) Step back once in a while from relationship activities. What I mean is maintain your own social life as well. It is not healthy to stick to each other like super glue all day. You should have your own friends and activities of your own. Never be at his beck and call all day because after some time, he will take you for granted and may even get tired of you. In fact, when you have a life of your own, you maintain a sense of mystery to your guy. He knows he can not have you anytime he wants to and will treasure you more when he sees you. Absence does make the hearts grow fonder.
6) Do something once in a while to excite your man and make his heart beat faster. If he is the one always planning the activities for the next date, you could surprise him by telling him that you will be in charge this time! I'm sure he will be looking forward to the next date in anticipation. You can also pick him up from his workplace, instead of him picking you up always. Bring him to a nice restaurant and give him a treat for no special reason.
There are many ways to thrill a guy, you will be surprised! It is not often as hard as you can imagine. A healthy relationship thrives on many factors, and of course keeping up the romance is one of them. Remember to keep the sparks going and you will have him wanting for more!
Source by Angela Tay