A wise man said "You see what you expect to see". Thereafter our thoughts about a particular situation or people will blind us as we allow our subconscious to take over out thoughts and poison our minds. What particular thoughts do you have prior to a date? If you expect it to be uninteresting, boring and unpleasant, it sure could turn out that way. The good thing is that you have the choice.
It is just a matter of attitude. Attitude is under-rated these days. It is more than just a "small thing" that can separate us from others. Attitude can make or break your life, dating life included. Negative thoughts can be repelled with a positive attitude towards life. Attitudes dictate how you view life and live life. Life id not all gloom and doom, as a lot of people may feel.
When negative thoughts start to enter your mind, ask yourself what could happen if you were to meet the "right man" that night. When your positive thinking starts to take over, you feel happier and more optimistic. You start to look forward to the date, and be on your best behavior and charm. Just because you change your outlook on things. Such is the power of intentions.
Set an intention for the month. Think of what you want to experience, in pictures. Think of how many men you want to date in this period and how happy you will feel about yourself, and around them. Let the imagination be as real as possible.
Start each day with good intention for life. Doing this keeps you positive for the whole day. It is a great way to recharge you for a good day. Energy spreads, whether it is good or bad. Your good energy will attract people with good energy to you. The saying that the world is just a mirror of yourself is true.
Source by Sandra Christian