If you are a young Christian man, who has by now believed consistently on the will of Jesus Christ while making decisions in life, then surely you would not have thought of dating a woman. And, it is the age of 21, when you would have actually thought of dating a woman and spending some quality time with a prospective life partner. Now, when you are looking for someone, who loves the Lord as sturdy as you do, then do not feel shy to try a date with a young girl and start knowing her better. And, do remember it is dating only which is going to help you in deciding the best suited girl for you to be engaged with for the life. You can judge her attitude toward the life and the Holy Spirit, her likes and dislikes, her tastes, preferences, and behavior so that you can better understand whether this girl is made for you or not.
Even if you have got to meet a girl, who looks perfectly the same as you had thought in your dreams, then also you should not forget to analyze her completely. Here, for this purpose you have to date her for more than once so that you can know her thoroughly. There are certain principals to be followed while dating a girl so that she finds it interesting meeting the Christian man again and again.
1. Be neat and clean
Before you join your potential life partner, make sure that you take a shower, wear a clean dress and comb your hair properly. The girls always like the people who behave neat and clean.
2. Wear Christian cologne
It will be good if you wear some good fragrance on your body but it will be better if you use the Christian cologne. This will make your date more pleasant and successful.
3. Pray to Lord
The day before your first date, you should spend sometime praying to lord to guide your words and actions. Ask Jesus to control your passion and lust so that you can concentrate in knowing the girl better then only getting aroused for sex, which does not take the relationship anywhere except for a short term sexual fulfillment. The long-run strong relationships are based on the honesty, integrity, understanding, and confidence. Here, to boost the long-term relationship with the girl of your dreams depends upon the mutual confidence, which can be built by controlling the lust.
4. Take her to the Church
The church is the best place to visit on the first date. You have ample opportunity to share the good thoughts with each other in presence of Lord. Also, imagine how impressed she would be when you spent your first date in the holy lap of mother Mary followed by a romantic dinner in a sensual restaurant.
5. Recite versa
All good girls feel good about the glory of Lord. So, whenever there is some gap or silence in your conversation start quoting a scripture or singing a hymn. If she feels awkward about it then this is a sign that she is not a person worth you and your spiritual life.
6. Procure a ring
For a Christian man every date is a potential opportunity to mate. If she is a right girl for you, then do not delay in asking the question and once she is agreed to accept you as her life partner then the engagement ring will always be available for you.
7. Test her spirituality
While on dinner table in the restaurant you can examine her spirituality by asking her the questions regarding her faith in Lord. You can also ask her questions about her salvation. But make it sure that it should not appear something tricky or imposed. Do not spend more time on this topic other you may lead your date to a frustration.
8. Keep the passion curved
Do not get aroused while dating for the first time. You should check your sensuality so that you can spend the good time with your prospect life partner. Do remember, any sexual advancement in your first date can spoil your prospects with the girl forever.
So, all you Christian men out there follow these tips while dating and get the best companion for you to spend your life happily. God bless you!
Source by Maria Lacy