Do you ever get the feeling that something is missing when it comes to your dating life? Have you been on dates after dates only to face massive disappointment each time?
Do you go through any of the following?
- Have you ever been interested in a guy and really wanted him to like you back but just did not know how?
- Are you sick and tired of going on dates after dates only to realize that none of the men ever call you back even when they said they would?
- Do you always find great men running away from you?
- Do you feel frustrated when the only thing men want from you is sex?
- Do you often fear that you might have to end up with a loser?
- Has all this been affecting your self image where now it makes you feel as if you are not good enough?
I am sure you have sat there and given all this a deep thought and often said to yourself – Why me? Why is all this happening to me?
Well let me take some load off your shoulders. You are not the only woman who has to go through all this. This is the common story of majority of women out there. But there is nothing to worry … Let me share some useful tips which will bring your dating life back on track …
Dating tip # 1 – If you like him do not act as if you have won the lottery …
It drives me nuts whenever I hear women say – "I did all the right things, I told him that I really like him and find him interesting but he did not seem all that interested".
Well what do you expect?
Some women let their thoughts run wild and even think far and beyond what's right in front of them. Some women see a guy, instantly fall for him and start dreaming of a life together.
Why do you think a guy will even be excited about you when you have already declared your love for him?
Always remember – If you want to win the game of dating then you have to take it slow.
Here are some first date pointers:
- Do not go all crazy for him just because you find him cute. Keep all this to yourself and do not tell him how you feel on the very first date. Keep him guessing.
- Do not treat him like he is something special. Just treat him like you would treat any other guy … Trust me! This will save you from a lot of trouble.
Dating tip # 2 – Do not be an open book …
Never tell him too much about yourself on the first date … Do not be an open book.
Telling him too much too early will only kill the mystery. Here is an example for you –
If he asks you – So what kind of men do you like?
Instead of saying – I like tall, cute, funny etc guys stop yourself and try something along the lines of …
"We have just met and you are already trying to figure out what I like? OK buddy! Let's take this slow."
Here is how this works in your favor-
1. It challenges him – He can see that you are not like other women and he will have to work hard for your attention.
2. It makes you more interesting in his world – Other women would have given him a boring answer. But by dodging his question like you did he will instantly assume that you are not like the rest which makes you more interesting in his eyes.
3. Always be the first one to end the date and let him be the first one to call you …
Do you know when dates really get boring? It's when you let them drag on too long. Yes! Even interesting dates can turn into boring ones if you do not end it at the right time.
Therefore make it a point to always be the first one to end the date. And now let me share a little trick which will ensure that a guy will definitely call you back.
Instead of just giving the guy your phone number after the date try saying the following:
"Well I try not to give out my phone number anymore. I am basically tired of men who try to play games and keep me waiting sometimes. me call him. I just do not play that game. "
This will make him want your number even more and he will definitely call you back.
Points to keep in mind:
- Men place a higher value on women who they have to work hard for in comparison to women who are easy to get.
- It's OK to like him but it's not OK to tell him that you like him too early.
- Do not answer all his questions right away. He does not need to know everything about you just yet.
- If he does not call you then do not even think about calling him. He has your number and knows how to use the phone. If he likes you enough he will call you. If he does not then it's his loss, just let it go.
Source by Scarlet Hall