Good dating and relationship advice is what can help us make difficult decisions. There are many types of guys out there. Some boyfriends are good, some are bad, and others are dangerous. If you find yourself in a relationship with a man where things are just not right and you know it deep in your gut, it is time to take inventory. Some guys will be hard to part with even if you know it is for the best. But hard decisions are a part of life.
Here are 10 behaviors and attitudes you should never ever tolerate in any man. If the man you are involved with is guilty of these, you better drop him fast. No one describes to be put down, taken advantage of or disrespected. Even if you love him, it is time to do some serious re-evaluating.
Are you getting the love and respect you deserve? Are you putting up with this?
1. You find yourself wishing you were back with your old creep of a boyfriend you had months ago. That's a mighty sign that the new man in your life is no good.
2. If he calls you by his ex's name more than once. Once once a mistake but after that, question it seriously. Surely he knows your name is NOT Jane – it is Judy. Worse yet, if he keeps making a mistake with your name and he is trying to cover it up, let him go.
3. Whenever you want a night out with the girls … he has come to a long too. Gimme a break!
4. He's calls his mom too many times checking in with her to see if "it's okay" to do this or that with you. You do want a man who respects his mother. If he respects his mom, most likely he will respect you. But, if his checking in with his mom kinda nags at you … get your running shoes on NOW!
5. Does he constantly criticize you? If he's doing that now … what will it be like when the relationship becomes more serious? Do not even go there.
6. He does not have a job, let alone a career. You do not want to be his social security check, do you? And besides, if he has trouble holding onto a job, what else is he having serious trouble with?
7. You are constantly letting him get away with things. Stop covering up for his faults! Maybe it is time to face the facts and get out now.
8. Does he listen to you? Does your opinion matter? Does he respect what you think? If not, let the relationship go.
9. He appears to enjoy humiliating you in front of others. I almost want to say, slap that chap and move on! You do not need that no matter how many times he says he is sorry. Actually, the word "sorry" does describe this kind of man.
10. He expects you to cook, clean and do other chores for him. That is what you do for your children. If he wants treatment like a King, make sure he beats you like his Queen. If not, let him go.
Wow, that was just ten key elements of your relationship to look at. There are so many more.
Source by BJ Moorer