What is the one common factor that separates the guy-magnet and the rest of the girls? None. There is no common factor but a couple of "game" strategies. It's not even looks, personality or intelligence although these are good bonuses.
Men see them as "cool" and are more than willing to spend time together. Men seem to be under their spells. There seems to be hidden magnetism that attract men. While most girls hope that their men give them more time, treat them better and spend more on them, this special groups seem to be the winning opposite. They make their men very serious about the relationship, and men offer them undying love and lots and lots of their time, even commitment. It seems such a far cry from the people who are suffering a under-appreciated relationship, and that is a fact.In comparison to these "cool" ladies, the rest feel like utter failures.
In reality, how well the relationship is depends on how well the couple is suited to each other, and how much desire one has for the other. Fortunately, both can be cultured with time.There are skills that have to be learned. Once you learn the vital arts, you too can belong to "Cool". And you can have a successful relationship that goes stronger and stronger. Here are some strategies:
Take things slowly to include him in your schedule.Introduce activities that will get him to participate together, such as going shopping to get things he like.Of course you should also get things like you, but make him the star of the event; focus things on his side. When he feels that he is being appreciated, he will be more willing to come out for future dates.
One of the best advice is do not be ordinary. Politeness is good but try to be seen across as fun. Being mediocre has its own disadvantages. How else can you stand out from the ordinary girl if you just like like one? Add in a little of mystery to be more interesting. He will then ask you out more often to unravel that mystery.
Never offer or accept sex too soon in the beginning. Relationship based on physical attractions do not last as long as those based on the levels of the soul. Treat sex as a prize for both parties going to the greater depths of relationship. Connect emotionally, before you engage physically. That way, relationship will more more lasting than when you had a relationship like the un "cool".
Source by Sandra Christian