What happens when you’ve approached and dated so many women that you’ve found a special one that catches your eye?
It’s time to consider a serious relationship.
If you’re like most men, the thought of having a girlfriend either sends shivers down your spine or makes you think “Sweet! Now I can stop shaving, get to wear my favorite sweatpants all the time, and don’t have to go to the gym anymore!”
I hate to break it to you, guys, but that’s not how it works. Remember all of those hours you spent searching “dating tips for men” online? Remember all of those books you read and seduction forums you joined? You don’t get to forget everything you learned just because you’re seeing a woman seriously. In fact, there’s a whole new set of dating tips for men in relationships that you’re going to have to learn.
For example:
- Don’t move too quickly. Neediness is one of the biggest attraction killers for both men and women, so no matter how hot/smart/funny/etc she is, don’t give her too much of your attention too soon. She’s looking for a boyfriend, not a stalker.
- Don’t continue a relationship that isn’t working. Most relationships are over long before the break up actually occurs because the people involved are too scared to break out of the routine they’ve developed. Don’t let this happen – it’s not fair to you, and it’s not fair to her. It will only lead to anger and resentment.
- Have a fulfilling life outside of your relationship. If you focus all of your time and attention on your girlfriend, she will lose interest in you. Make time for your friends, indulge in your hobbies, and put effort into your professional life. The more interesting your life is, the more she will want to continue being a part of it.
Don’t fall into the trap that countless men in the seduction community fall victim to. It’s not enough to study dating tips for men that teach you how to get the girl; you have to understand how to keep the girl once you find one you’re interested in!
Source by Joe J. Anderson