In today’s world it seems to be getting harder and harder for women to meet a nice man and feel safe while out for the evening with him. Go to any bookstore and you will surely find books on dating that offer different kinds of advice. They will come with hot pink covers, sexy pictures of the male species on the cover; they will promise the moon if you will only follow their advice. Back in the day it was appalling to buy a book like these self help dating books. It showed the world you could not get a man on your own and you needed help from strangers.
Thank goodness that has changed and today many women see these as a form of entertainment. You will find dating gurus peddling their advice all over the place, from online to television, stating their advice is the only advice you will ever need. But some vow it does not work and they will stay away from them at all costs. Others firmly believe in a lot of the advice and maybe you should adhere to some of it.
Unlike food or medicine, dating advice is not regulated. Anybody can spew out advice if it sounds good. Much advice from psychologists can actually hurt a women’s chance of getting a good man out on a date. The list is long for advice for women dating; such as how you must dress for a man. His desires come first and you should wear that short black dress, or try to be someone you are not. This implies who you are may not be good enough so you have to be different, more feminine, more flirtatious and mysterious.
As these techniques might get results, they will cost you in the long run. This is playing a game with the opposite sex and it will only attract players, someone that you do not want. Men will see who you are trying to be, not who you really are deep down inside; that is what you want them to know. It will only hurt your self esteem and cause a lot of problems. One can read all about dating advice they want to but the bottom line is what you see yourself as. Women must learn to accept themselves for who they are not what some man wants them to be. When we feel better about ourselves, we are more confident, and our social life will flourish as the result.
Source by Richard Johnstonn