One of the biggest problems most single women face is knowing where to go to find a good quality man. If you are a woman and you've been single for more than a few days you have probably had one of these thoughts go through your head:
" All the good men are taken "
" All the men I meet are only interested in sex "
" I'm tired (or to old) of the Bar / club scene "
And you're not alone. These are just some of the complaints and frustrations I hear every day from single women all over the world. But these problems are not new.
They have been going on for decades and as long as men and women will be single and in the dating world, they will continue to go on.
But the good news is there are things you can do to increase your chances of meeting that special guy that you are looking for.
1) Online dating – Millions of people around the globe are currently using online dating. In fact last year over 100,000 adults surfed the web hoping to find everlasting love.
Of course online dating has its share of men and women who misrepresent themselves and who have other motives. But the good news is that if you keep your eyes and ears open and use some common sense you will be able to spot these scammers quickly.
In fact, that's why I am a huge proponent of online dating. Regardless of the fact that I met my wife online over 12 years ago. If a person learns to do online dating right they can literally meet and connect with good quality men without leaving their house.
2) Through Friends & Family Members – Another great way to meet an awesome guy is through people who know you. But be careful. Because your friends and family members want to see you with someone almost as bad as you want to be with someone, they often set you up with someone who is not a good fit for you.
The best way to avoid this is to tell your friends and family members exactly what kind of guy you are looking for. And when they try to set you up with someone review your criteria with them to see if you would be a good fit.
Just because you're single and he's single does not mean you would be a good match.
3) Go to places where the type of guy you're looking for would go . If you are interested in an athletic guy, go to the gym, go to a sporting event or take up tennis or golf. However, if you prefer the more cerebral types try the library or join business networking group.
Even if you do not meet the man of your dreams you very often meet people who may know the type of guy you are looking for.
The more you put yourself out there and go to places where the type of guy you are looking for may congregate the more you put yourself in position to win the dating game.
But the key is you must have fun doing so. If putting yourself out there becomes a chore and is laborious it will wear on you and eventually cause you to become frustrated and give up.
Dating can be fun and enjoyable.
I see it all the time with the women I coach. Once they realize that there are a lot of good single guys out there and they realize that it is not hard finding and meeting them, there is a huge shift in their attitude and energy. As a result there dating becomes much easier and more enjoyable. And once that happens it's only a matter of time before they meet that special guy to share their life with.
Source by Joe Amoia