Ladies if you want to know how to attract men, more then then you have before, then it is high time that you need to get rid of the old restrictive thoughts and dating rules and embrace the new set of rules. Men are just like big kids …. hope no guy looking this now. They can be really easy going during dating and especially true on the very first few dates with women that they really wanted to progress to next level of relationship. BUT, men, they can also be really strict about certain things during a date. Following is the list of do's and do not during dating.
1) Gentlemen First Not Ladies First – For once and for your own happiness seek, let the guy first in this round, calling for dates. I know, I know, he is the cutest guy you have ever met in your dates, and is really breaking down your nerves waiting for the call after a success date, worst if you really have good feeling for him. Never, never, call him a day or two after last date. Wait for his call for about 3-4 days, these times, he might be practicing and work up the courage to call you for the next date. However if he does not call, you must not call him in this stage. One thing you can do now is to sms him, saying 'hi' and some short messages asking him how he doing today, but not asking him out. Email him some interesting pictures, just to remind him of you.
By now, no matter how he is, he should be calling you for another date.
2) Alright, now you have your next date, so is it time to resume your 'ladies first' mindset again. The answer is NO. In the first tip, you have already won the 1st round in the game of dating. And if you think that you can leave the gentlemen wait for you in the dating venue, this can really give the guy a bad impression that you have stood him up. Prepare early for the next date, let him feel that you do respect him by coming in a little bit earlier or the best just in time for the date (too early may embarrass him for being late). Do not believe in guy when they say it's right to let them wait for women in the dates. Just imagine yourself sitting alone in a cafe for one hour.
3) Praise the big boy – Guy just like kid, just a compliment will put him at ease and make him feel comfortable in creating more topics when both of you are waiting for the service of the restaurant or waiting for the threatre to open. By doing so, it also shows that you are talking notice of him and appreciate him for taking the effort in preparing for this date. Yo can be saying something about how unique the tie is, how good he look in the new shirt or how well he match the color of his shirt and pant. Just remember do not over do it, by saying how nice he comb his hair, as in actual fact he is having thin hairs.
4) keep your complaints at home – Many people think that only girls like to complain, it is true too that many guys like to complain. But this does not mean that on the subsequent dates, you can let all the complaints become the main topics during the dates. Do not let the poor service of the restaurant, bad sound system inside the cinema and etc affect the wonderful night of dates. It does not mean that you can not voice out about all these, but you translate it and the tone you using is very important as well. Going out with guy is totally different with your girl friends, like you always always 'venting' like you do. Just bare with it for a few hours and you can tell him in just any other normal conversation in the next dates about the bad experiences with the places or things you encountered during the last date with him. Most probably, he will try his best to make it up for the lousy date he made.
5) Enjoy yourself – Date is just another way which you can truly enjoy it by knowing new guy, new friends of his, new things which he might be teaching or showing you. Do you still remember how you first react when come to know your best friends now? I bet most of you might be forgetting, but not me. I remember when I first came to know my best friend, we belong to the same weekend musical class. We were both small kids and of course did not put on guard, what we see is the real self of us. So, try letting your guard down for a day. He might or might not like the real you, bit if he does not like the real you, why should you keep on dating with him.
Good Luck ladies and wishing you with many wonderful dates ahead.
Source by Vince Chua