Any single women would like to meet and end up with their Mr. Right – their "the one". But having been in the dating and relationship industry, specifically the getting an ex back side, I realized that most women have problem keeping the man they think is that person meant for them.
Sometimes I find it sad that even though they've been dating for more than 5 years instead of ending up marrying each other, they end up being dumped by their man. Also, married couples end up separating because their husbands choose to end it with them. So, I decided to make this article to share some dating tips for women on how they can keep their guy based on my personal experience and what I usually hear guys complain about.
Here are 4 simple tips that can help you keep a guy:
1. Tell him how you feel and not just rely on showing it.
I think most women are guilty of this, when we are upset we tend to show it with our actions. We keep quiet, frown or even give a little tantrum and when our boyfriends or husbands asks whether we're upset or mad we give them the "I'm fine" answer when deep inside you feel like killing him already.
Men do not understand this episode us girls have when we are mad. They do not want mind games. They would rather let you tell them straight up that you're pissed than being in a guessing game of whether you really are upset or not.
If there is one thing I learned from my relationship with my husband, men are more logical than emotional. When we tell them we're fine when actually we're not, they would simply accept your "I'm fine" question rather than read between the lines of your answer.
2. They also want to be swept off their feet.
As girlfriends and wives, we also have the responsibility of keeping our men on their toes when it comes to the relationship. We should also put some effort on spicing up the relationship and not just reliably on them doing it for the relationship. Like us women, they also want to feel appreciated and loved. So why not cook for them again, buy sexy lingerie to seduce him with or plan a date that is about him for a change.
3. Be confident
Men are attracted to women who are confident which means men hates it when we are insecure. And as we all know or should realize, when we are insecure we tend to be needy and clingy which will only push our boyfriend of husband away.
No matter how long you and your guy have been together and even when there are ladies showing interest on your partners, the fact that they're staying with you is something that should motivate you to be confident and secure with the relationship.
Now, instead of feeling sorry or worried, use any doubt in your head to motivate you to be confident and attractive again.
4. Do not put him on a leash.
A friend told me this; if a healthy relationship should be written as a mathematical equation it should be 1 + 1 = 3. The sum is three because besides spending time with each other, couples should give their partners some time separately. Let him hang out with his friends without you. Not only will that make him feel that you trust him, it will only help him continue growing as an individual too.
You and your partner need to spend some time away from each other to grow individually and to avoid getting tired of each other. Do not get mad when he asks to be with his friends for a night or to just play basketball. Believe it or not spending time away from each other from time to time can help your relationship grow stronger.
Source by Meredith Cruz