As women, we’re often brought up to believe that being vocal during sex is a big no-no. How many of us have believed, through most of our adult lives, that if we say too much during sex, or if we show our approval with moaning, that the man we are with will think we have no shame? It’s a common problem and the real issue isn’t whether the man finds it attractive or not. Surprising to almost all women is the fact that most men love verbally expressive women. If you are wondering about how to talk dirty to your boyfriend, but you are feeling a little self conscious about it, you’re not alone.
When it comes to how to talk dirty to your boyfriend you have to let go a little and push any shyness you have aside. Remember that you two are sharing a very intimate experience and if you feel a guttural moan coming on because he’s doing all the right things, let it out. Men love when a woman allows her body to naturally take over during love making. When you give him verbal clues about what you like, he’ll know exactly how to please you.
One common misconception that surrounds the whole issue of talking during sex is the need to use language you just aren’t comfortable with. Sure some women can spout off four letter words and it works for them because they are accustomed to using them. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with that if it’s what they want. If you’re a little on the shy side though and you just can’t see yourself screaming those words in the heat of the moment, don’t worry. There are so many ways to talk sensually to your boyfriend.
When you are thinking about how to talk dirty to your boyfriend think about the words that you love hearing him say to you. Start gradually by introducing a few quiet moans or well placed erotic words into your love making routine. You never want to suddenly start spouting off sexy phrases that he’s never heard you say before. If you do this it won’t seem natural and he’ll instinctively know you are simply putting on a show for his benefit. When you talk dirty to your boyfriend it has to come from within you. You have to mean it and he has to feel that.
Source by Jordy Johnson